I’ve been wanting to throw a Murder She Drank party for a few years now and we finally made it happen!
Years ago, I started occasionally playing Murder She Drank on Twitter with random strangers (and one of the MSD founders, Kathy Zadrozny who I know from the Letter Writers Alliance.) It was SO fun to watch old episodes of Murder She Wrote and laugh with each other about the fashion, the hair, the storylines, and the guest stars. When I would tell people about the game, everyone thought it sounded so fun but no one ever joined in online, so I figured I needed to just invite people to play in person.
For Valentine’s Day this year, we decided to dive in and throw the party. I printed out paper invitations (my favorite part of throwing a party!) and invited a few friends over for a cozy night of soup, snacks, cocktails, and Jessica Fletcher!
Naoto made his famous chicken noodle soup and a vegetarian chili and we crammed extra furniture in the living room so everyone had a place to sit (somewhat) comfortably. We watched two classic episodes of Murder She Wrote: “Murder By the Bus” (Season 1, episode 19) and “One Good Bid Deserves Another” (Season 2, episode 17.) Both episodes were perfect for Bingo!
I made two signature cocktails, The Bestseller, which is a spin on a Sidecar and was our “welcome cocktail” as people joined the party, and a punch, the Cabot Cove, which was served throughout the evening (along with wine and beer.) Both were tasty and batched well for our small crowd.
Even the people who claimed not to be fans of Murder She Wrote had a good time! We want to try to do it again this summer with a backyard viewing of the Murder She Wrote/Magnum P.I. crossover episodes. Maybe Naoto will dust off some of his Hawaii cookbooks for the occasion?
Born in an Ohio barn, she was given to us by our friend Bonnie who knew we needed her before we did. We are so lucky that we got to spend the past 17 years with her and we are grateful for every moment, even though it feels like it wasn’t enough. Presley’s favorite activities included managing Naoto, napping in her too small box in my studio, snoozing on the wine cabinet, chasing sunbeams, tapping our arms (or eyes) when she wanted pets, dining on mackerel and salmon, drinking from my water glass, sunbathing on the deck, judging my book club books, howling at 3am to make sure we were home, hanging out with the Holiday Gang, and intimidating guests. We’re so happy we got to spend the holidays with her and that she got one last season dozing under the Christmas tree.
2024 has been lonely without my little grey shadow.
(I know most of you probably saw this announcement on Instagram, but I wanted to add it to the (neglected) blog for my own sake, so I’m back-dating this post so it can live here in my own world and not just on Instagram.)
Have you ever heard of Inciardi paste tomatoes? I hadn’t until last year when I started following Anastasia Inciardi on Instagram. She had just learned of her family connection to the tomato!
In 1900, Enrico Inciardi came to America from Sicily. He sewed vegetable seeds into the hem of his clothing in order to bring familiar foods to his new home while passing inspection at Ellis Island. What is now known as the Inciardi paste tomato was included with those seeds! Enrico (Henry) ended up in Chicago where he was a cabinet maker. His first wife, Antoinetta, was one of 844 passengers who died in the infamous Eastland disaster in 1915. He later remarried, had a son, and grew the tomatoes throughout his life until his death in 1948. Since then, his tomatoes almost became instinct, with only a small handful of gardeners growing them in an around Downers Grove, Illinois.
When I learned about this tomato, I immediately wanted to grow it! Downers Grove is only about 20 minutes away from Forest Park and I loved this seed’s story and that it came all the way from Italy. I looked for some seeds online, but had no success, so I turned to Reddit to ask if anyone knew where I could get my hands on some. A nice Redditor suggested they’d seen them in the seed bank at the St. Charles Public Library. I happen to know someone who works there so I reached out to see if she could confirm. I was fully prepared to drive to St. Charles, but she kindly offered to mail them to me! (Thank you Anna and Mollie!)
Back in March, this envelope of priceless seeds arrived in my mailbox. I was so nervous to plant them because I’ve never successfully grown tomatoes from seed before. I got some grow lights and a growing mat and kept an eye on the 12 seeds every day until I finally saw some teeny seedlings emerging!
Most of my seeds emerged and made it to the hardening off process. I managed to transplant four strong plants in my garden bed and another two in a large pot in the yard. I gave my dad a few seedlings as well. Then, we left for Japan, so the fate of the plants was left to Karen who was caring for Presley and our garden while we were gone.
Here’s what they looked like when we got home in June. They were all healthy and happy thanks to Karen’s diligent watering during what ended up being a long drought that lasted almost the entire time we were in Japan. Whew!
A few weeks later, we had tomatoes!!
We’ve lost a few fruits to blossom end rot, but so far we’ve harvested ten Inciardis. I’m trying to pull them at “first blush” so they don’t split on the vine or get eaten by a critter. They then finish ripening on my counter.
When they’re fully ripened, they are a really lovely shade of red-orange. Last Wednesday, they were ripe and ready to become a fresh tomato sauce. I chopped them up and cooked them down with lots of garlic, olive oil, and salt, pureed it all with an immersion blender, and we served it over fresh pasta. Four tomatoes was just enough for the two of us.
It felt so gratifying to take this heirloom tomato all the way from seed into a homemade dinner! I am looking forward to cooking more sauce this week and freezing it for the winter.
Oh, and I’ve already started saving seeds from my best fruits to plant again next year!
Garage Galleries is coming up at the end of the month! As I say every summer, this is our favorite event of the year because we get to see (and meet) so many of our neighbors. It’s such a relaxed vibe and it’s just so Forest Park.
We celebrated Stationery Store Day with Paper & Pencil this year. They had a pop-up makers market and invited us to participate and, even though it rained all day, we had a great time meeting fellow stationery fans in Andersonville!
Paper & Pencil looked so charming all decked out for the holiday. The store was busy from open to close, proving that this silly little holiday is just what stationery fans needed to truly celebrate the paper and pencils and stickers that we love year-round. Isn’t it just fun to celebrate in community sometimes?
Sidenote: Let’s take a moment to admire this Journey of a Letter poster in the P&P shop.
My helpful assistant gave me a little break so I could go inside and buy some official Stationery Store Day merch. He also brought me coffee and snacks throughout the day and kept inching my frames out of the drips coming down from the sides of the tent. Truly Employee of the Year behavior.
In addition to the official Stationery Store Day items, I bought two cards from Submarine Paper Co, who was also part of the makers market. I love her style!
And in case you’re wondering why I didn’t buy more, well it’s because I was just shopping at Paper & Pencil last month. April, my pen pal from New Zealand, was here for a visit and we spent a day in Andersonville stationery shopping. Pictured is everything I bought that day (except for the Japanese mail frog, which was from Raygun, just around the corner from P&P!)
That’s a wrap for Stationery Store Day 2023! We’re already looking forward to next year. But for now, I’m back in production mode for Garage Galleries on August 26–this time we’ll be in my own back yard!
I’d love to hear how you celebrated Stationery Store Day!
Hello from the Housegawa Garden! I picked my first tomatoes this week, on the exact same day I picked my first tomatoes last year! These are “advanced” Black Cherry Tomatoes (also the same variety I picked last year!) because the rest are green on the vine. I have no idea why two ripen much sooner than the rest!
I have so much to share! Naoto and I spent the first part of the summer in Japan, our first trip back since Covid! It was so great to be back to see Naoto’s family and revisit our favorite places along with some new ones. We took a fun side trip to the gyoza capital of Japan, which I can’t wait to tell you about!
Then, we caught Covid on the plane and spent our first days home sick, quarantining, recovering, and then catching up with everything we missed in June. But now, we’re feeling rested and ready make the most of the rest of the summer. Whew!
So, if you’re still around, HELLO! Please tell me what YOU have been up to!
Everybody loves a parade…except me. So when Forest Park held their annual St. Patrick’s Day parade earlier this month, Naoto decided to take me into Chicago to Atlas Stationers and Spinning J’s for a day date! (And for the record, admitting my parade disdain online means I could never run for office in this town!)
Atlas has been around forever–over 80 years! Every time I’d pass by on the L, I would wonder about it. They used to be more of an office supply store, but since 2019, they turned their attention to fountain pens, inks, stationery, and other fine analog tools.
They offer soooo many inks and fountain pen styles and have a huge testing station where you can try different nib sizes and pens. I am planning to go back to add to my tiny fountain pen collection.
Atlas offers thirty-three brands of inks, and over 700 color choices! As someone who cannot make a decision to save her life and will almost always buy another shade of blue, this sounded overwhelming but they make it so easy! All of their inks are shown in this sample book (both swatched and written so you can see how the ink looks coming from a fountain pen) which
On this visit though, I was there for a springy pink ink, particularly the Ferris Wheel Press Fluttering Heart. I was tempted into buying other things too…
I am particularly excited about the bird letterpress notecards. And I couldn’t resist Atlas Iron Ore which was made with Atlas and Chicago in mind. It’s a perfect grey/black with some sparkle.
The best part of the visit was meeting Therese/Mrs. Atlas. She was so warm and welcoming and shared how much she loves packing orders. She gave me a couple of the postcards they send when they ship orders and some giant Atlas Stationers stickers which I will be sharing with my pen pals. (They are the same as the bottom postcard of Atlas lit up at night.)
We’re rolling into the end of February so I thought I’d share our Valentines. I found these on Shutterfly and thought they were so fun so I added one of my favorite pictures of Presley with her Christmas banana.
We sent them out to friends, family, and some of Presley’s favorites from Instagram. I used my favorite old Martha Stewart Valentine stamps and some Mrs. Grossman’s stickers to decorate the envelopes and topped each one with a rather creepy love stamp from the USPS.
Sometimes I wonder if greeting cards are the only thing I am going to send this year–I’ve been terribly behind on my letter writing!
Tuesday, I taught another workshop with Forest Park Public Library. This was my second Valentine workshop and fourth card making workshop with them and like always, it was so much fun making cards with my community. (Thanks to my neighbor, Meghan, for the picture of me awkwardly sharing the fox folds!)
We made an origami fox bookmark, a folded flower, tiny accordion-fold hearts, a 3-D fish, and a simple watercolor card. The fox and the fish were the most fun, but also the most difficult. Should I attempt to share a how-to here soon? (The lighting is usually so bad in the wintertime for taking pictures, but we have a nice streak of sunny days coming up!
I have another letter writing presentation coming up in March in Batavia. It’s the third time I’ve given that talk, but it will be the first time in person. I’m looking forward to sharing some of my good mail and favorite supplies with everyone!
December is a blur. I guess it always feels that way, doesn’t it? The holidays come in like a rush and leave the same way. Then we’re left with January…gloomy, quiet January. (To be fair, January hasn’t been so bad. I kind of like staying in after a month of holiday parties and activities.)
We got our tree on the Portillo’s lot a few blocks from our house. It was SO convenient and it lasted a pretty long time (for a dead tree!) I am still not used to our higher ceilings here at the house but we juuuuust made it this year again! Whew!
On December 2nd, we hosted our annual Holiday Walk party. Forest Park hosts a holiday walk along Madison Street the first Friday after Christmas. Shops and restaurants have live window displays and specials, the tree gets lit, and Santa arrives and meets kids. It’s like a Hallmark movie here in Forest Park. Naoto and I have been inviting people over after the walk for soups and snacks for several years now and it’s grown from two people to thirty people. Naoto made minestrone and his famous chicken noodle soups and our house was full for the first time ever. (Last year we held the party outside around the fire pit which was fun, but less comfortable than being inside on a cold night!)
I ordered us all matching pajamas. Presley hated them. (But isn’t she so cute?) But for real, these are the first non-sweatsuit winter pajamas I’ve had in a long time and now there’s no turning back. I’ve ordered myself more.
We sent out loads of Christmas cards. They deserve their own post because like last year, Donovan captured Presley just perfectly.
We went to the year’s favorite activity, Chris & Heather’s Calendar Show, which was fabulous as always. Naoto and I got there late but ended up with a front row seat (well, stand technically) and I got to change out the artist cards! It was so ridiculously fun.
Due to a close call with Covid, I had to miss our book club tea this year. It was a bummer but I didn’t want to risk infecting anyone if I did have it. (Thankfully I came out unscathed!)
Christmas was very cozy at home. I’ll share my gifts in another post, but one of Naoto’s highlights is this cookbook holder made by my dad. We are trying to cook out of our cookbooks more (it’s been a long struggle) and this has been making it more convenient. (I sent this idea to my dad and he modified it a little bit to make it even better!)
Presley got slippers for Christmas…she tolerates them but will kick them off and send them flying through the air.
She also got a catnip banana for Christmas, which ended up being her favorite toy. She didn’t leave its side the entire day. (And totally like a cat, she hasn’t touched it since!)
I hosted the book club friends for a little post-Christmas dinner. I used my Ruby Red Depression Glass set and decorated the table with some of my favorite Christmas things (like my green mailbox!) and vintage Shiny Brites. I made Ina’s lasagna and everyone contributed for the appetizer, salad, and dessert. It was such a warm, comfortable night…I just love hosting small groups and using some of my more special things.
The Putz Christmas village has a new home in the kitchen! When we remodeled this fall, we added in this “china cabinet” area next to our new pantry area. It turned out to be the perfect place for the village. Plus, I love having some Christmas spread across the house. I’ll share our kitchen someday…we’re still waiting on our last light fixture to come in and still choosing furniture for the space.
And finally, we ended the year with some friends at a dinner party. It was a perfectly quiet way to say goodbye to 2022 and ring in 2023.
I hope your holidays were jolly and the new year is treating you well.
kimberly ah 